Indonesia
The Greatness of Child Hypnosis
“I have never imagine how can we program them to be better when they are angry,” a woman responded on statement thrown by Asep Herna, the author of Hebatnya Hipnosis Anak, Strategi Tepat Mengelola Emosi Anak. “When the kids are angry, well, mom usually twice as angry than they are,” that mother of three went on.
“When angry, kids enter the hypnosis state, the emotion get to top, the suggestive side escalates, sending the kids to highly suggestive zone. At times like this, parents should be very careful. Get into the rage line, don’t block it, and then gently, start inserting positive suggestive message,” Asep Herna explains.
The dialog above occurred at the launching of Hebatnya Hipnosis Anak, Strategi tepat Mengelola Emosi Anak, at Gramedia Matraman, Jakarta, last Saturday April 12th 2014. The show revealed facts that parenting we have applied just might be wrong. Take for example the above anger condition. It turned out, during the rage, is the moment that parents can exploit to send in positive suggestive messages into kids’ brain and they will take them all without any struggle.
Besides when angry, there are 19 other suggestive moments that should every parents know. Among these is when sleepy, the first 30 minutes during sleep, when dreaming, delirious moment, 30 minutes before the wake, while the focus of reading a book, while playing games, while watching, when confused, when crying, when surprised, and others. How to take advantage of the moment and how to instill in children positive suggestions? Full reviews were peeled by the book published by Panda Media, an imprint of the Gagas Media.
In the launching event also played a game of “iron finger”, one out of 8 games designed to identify the suggestibility type of kid, to decide which way parents to approach kids best. The event also had the “expressive scratch” therapy, a technique to unleash kids’ negative emotional side.
MAHARANI INDRI
